Creating some serious sexual tension in an interaction is one of the biggest sticking points people face at some stage in their game and is hugely important to generate intense connections and solid numbers. This is especially crucial if you intend to spend the night with the girl.

The reason many struggle, if often due to the misconception of “sexualising the interaction”. Often it's interpreted as suddenly becoming the sleazy James Bond character and becoming overly physical. Which of course is so far from the truth.

Here's three simple steps to really start sexualising the conversation.

• Sexual Humour
• Eye Contact
• Get Physical

Ideally you'd be doing these three things simultaneously, but if the concept of sexualising a interaction is intimidating to you I'd recommend running them in order.

Sexual Humour

What a great and harmless way to start raising the heat of your conversation. By using humour your comments are funny, sexual and completely harmless.

“Oooo he's talking about sex, but its funny so I'm happy to continue.... and he's talking about sex! Exciting!”

By injecting plenty of sexual humour into a set your demonstrating several high value traits. Only confident guys can joke about sex and it demonstrates pre-selection as usually it's the guys who get plenty of sex that are jovial about it.

Examples:

PUA: “Right! You’ve won me over, back to my place.. lets go!”
*grab arm and start to jokingly lead away from set *
PUA: “You’re so lucky, you’re in for the best 3 minutes of your LIFE!”
Girl: “3 minutes is that all it takes?!?!”
PUA: “well I didn’t mean to boast… 1 minute of that is foreplay.”

Girl: “I’m not like other girls, whenever I go shopping I go straight into town and buy what I want then leave!”
PUA: “That’s actually quite a alpha trait….. wait a sec…. are you the kind of dominant women that’s going to take me home and spank me … then make ME do breakfast?!”

Use any opportunity to inject sexual humour. Even if the humour is detrimental, clearly it’s a joke but you’re still planting the sexual seed. The obvious bonus, it's funny and entertaining for the both of you! Great to keep the energy up in an interaction.

Eye Contact

Simple. There's various types of eye contact techniques we're happy to cover in our courses, but it really doesn't have to be anymore complicated than holding eye contact. The important thing is you're not staring, simply you're engaged in eye contact. The differene being the focus of your eye contact should be on projecting your current emotions, not about locking eyes with her.

When you hold eye contact and you're focused on your own sexual state, it's powerful stuff. Everything from pupil dilation to body language is picked up sub conscious by the girl and she'll feel the energy your emitting.

If this is done right you can hold eye contact for the majority of the conversation. Eye contact is often under stated, but its importance is huge for creating solid connections and sexual tension between the two of you.

Get  Physical

You should be getting physical right off the bat, but obviously not to this degree. If you've been consistent with your touching, escalating to this level is relatively easy.

We teach and demonstrate escalation ladders and break down “kino” a lot more on our courses but I'll give you a couple of moves to try out below.

When there's clearly a connection between you, this is the time to up the physical intent. Picture how heated things are going to get if your standing in front of her, hips touching with your arms around each others lower back. You can initiate this while holding eye contact by literally taking her hand and placing it around your lower back. If there's a connection between you, trust me her hand isn't going anywhere!

One of my favourite kino techniques to do prior to a make out, is slowly move them against a wall and again slowly move their hand above their head and pin it to the wall, before closing in for a make out. The sexual levels in this situation are extreme and you'll truly be creating one hell of a seduction experience for her. Do this right and they'll literally melt in your arms and often wrap their leg around you.

Want to inject humour along with sexual kino? Why not try a motorboat! One of my personal favourite hilarious kino escalation tricks. Don't know what it is?… look here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRUWoIjO7q4

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