PUA Brigthon Blog

What are shit tests...

Shit tests are those (often negative) remarks girls make to call you out on any weakness you may have in an effort to blow you out and end the pick up attempt as quickly as possible.

A simple trick of just framing your interaction as “playing to win” can really start producing some kinky results.

If in your mind you're “playing to win”, you're going to be automatically demonstrating a lot more intent and making a conscious effort to lead and escalate the interaction down the path you want it to. Leading an interaction is incredibly powerful. Leading is what separates you from “oh he was some friendly guy I met” from solid heavy attraction.

Creating some serious sexual tension in an interaction is one of the biggest sticking points people face at some stage in their game and is hugely important to generate intense connections and solid numbers. This is especially crucial if you intend to spend the night with the girl.

Assumption is one of the most important aspects of pick up and is so rarely spoken about.

Assumption is entirely internal. It's about assuming your own value and assuming positive reactions.