PUA Brighton Blog

We were approached by Brightons famous The Argus newspaper to help them with their valentines edition. People from across Sussex emailed in with their valentines / dating questions and we were there to help and answer them.

Those of you who aren't new to our blog by find the questions a little tame and mainstream, but none the less for your reading pleasure we've copied what was said in The Argus below.

Another inner game based article for you.

There's two main reasons guys don't reach their full potential when it comes to success with women, and they both largely come down to the need for VALIDATION.

What are shit tests...

Shit tests are those (often negative) remarks girls make to call you out on any weakness you may have in an effort to blow you out and end the pick up attempt as quickly as possible.

A simple trick of just framing your interaction as “playing to win” can really start producing some kinky results.

If in your mind you're “playing to win”, you're going to be automatically demonstrating a lot more intent and making a conscious effort to lead and escalate the interaction down the path you want it to. Leading an interaction is incredibly powerful. Leading is what separates you from “oh he was some friendly guy I met” from solid heavy attraction.